“These AP tests are really draining my whimsy,” is something I had heard my friend say a few months ago as we moped about life, as teenage girls in English class typically do. A few months earlier, I might have pictured her whimsicality as her running through fields of grass, something akin to Julie Andrews in the Sound of Music.
Now what comes to mind is polka-dot print, paperboy hats, and apple-shaped hair clips. Whimsy is simply the quality of being playful and imaginative. Even as a trend that emphasizes individuality, I’m not so sure it’s an “out” from the performative aspects of social media, as Dr. Nassir Ghaemi believes.
Under videos tagged #whimsy, I see tutorials on how to dress whimsically, “whimsical” Shein hauls, and whimsical habits to pick up (one of which was “wear dainty silk dresses while lounging at home”). It seems everybody has the desire to be the chaotic yet charming female lead of a romcom set in the early 2000s. It is a chase for intentional imperfection.
As a seventeen year old girl, I understand the want to be perceived as effortlessly yourself. When buying clothes, I often think about what looks casually stylish rather than what I truly like. I, too, have wanted to seem quirky, and to channel my own Luna Lovegood. But in reality, whimsy is not something that can be curated. To be truly whimsical is to let go of the word and the performance that accompanies it.